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Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative Practice is a way for spouses to resolve their divorce respectfully, without going to court. The Collaborative Law model was developed in Minnesota in the 1980s. Each client has the support, protection and guidance of his or her own lawyer.

While Collaborative lawyers are always a part of the process, sometimes child specialists, financial specialists and divorce coaches become involved as part of the professional team, that supports the family. Clients choose professionals as needed and benefit from their expertise and support throughout the process. Collaborative Practice is distinguished from traditional litigation by these core elements:

Professionals are hired to negotiate a mutually acceptable settlement without resorting to court to decide any issues.

Additionally,

  • The professionals must withdraw if either client goes to court;

  • Clients and professionals engage in open communication and information sharing; and

  • Everyone creates shared solutions that take into account the highest priorities of both spouses.

How Does Collaborative Divorce Work?

While you will always need to have Collaborative lawyers, you may also choose to start the process with a Collaborative Divorce Coach or a Collaborative Financial Professional. You will meet privately and in joint sessions with your professionals. Collaborative Practice is unique in that it calls for both spouses, and your lawyers, to meet for face-to-face discussions and negotiations outside the courtroom. In an atmosphere of openness and honesty, all assets are disclosed, needs are communicated, and solutions are explored. When there are children, their interests are given top priority.

The end result of Collaborative Practice is a divorce agreement that has been achieved through mutual problem solving. You, along with your lawyers and other chosen collaborative professionals, take control of shaping the final agreement, rather than having a settlement imposed on you by the court.

What Are The Advantages Of Collaborative Practice?

You keep control of the process, without going to court.

  • Children’s needs are given priority.

  • You and your spouse commit to reaching agreement through a problem-solving approach.

  • An atmosphere of respect minimizes conflict.

  • Open communication allows both of you to express your needs for moving forward and gives you new tools for effective problem-solving in the future.

  • There is full disclosure of facts and information.

  • Face-to-face meetings in the presence of lawyers make negotiations direct and efficient and allow for mutually created resolutions.

  • The Collaborative process helps both of you plan for your own future and that of your children, and begin new lives.

Is Collaborative Practice Right For You?

Take The Next Step

Schedule a consultation with one of our collaborative professionals. You can schedule an appointment with one of our attorneys, or if you feel more comfortable you can contact a financial professional or divorce coach.

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